1 Thessalonians 5v14 And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. 15 Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else.

We are to be leaders in Christ as we grow in faith. To love others enough to constructively warn them when they are falling into idleness and then to put our words into actions by investing and building them up. All of this in striving to do the good that Christ did to everyone we encounter. This is love.