Called to lead.

Titus 1v7-9
For an overseer, as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it.

We are all called to leadership in some way or another either in certain settings with our friends, as a man is to be for a woman, or as the part of a church. Paul lays out the guidelines we all should adhere to for great effectiveness in bringing Gods kingdom to this earth and being a shepherd to the lost.