Just listen.

Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God. (James 1:19, 20 ESV)

God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason. Let us focus on listening and in that we find wisdom and understanding rather than anger and quick judgement. And let us remember that anger rarely if ever accomplishes anything.